15 Things you should give up,

to be happy....

Now more than ever, it is important 

that we fully awaken to all of the

abundance that can be easily manifested 

into our lives. 

I've often been asked what makes

one person succeed, become wealthy

and live a great life, while another

person with the same knowledge and

information is disappointed...

I tell them,that, there are people who

understand how to awaken to abundance.

You must find them and do what they do.

Without awakening most people simply 

give up because they simply don't notice

the limitless abundance that surrounds 

them everyday.

With the  strategies that are about

to be revealed to you ,you can have more 

inner peace, love, spiritual abundance 

and  even more wealth than you ever

thought possible ,even if you feel like

you don't have enough time, money, or

knowledge about where to begin.

I try to infuses life-changing and mind,

transforming approaches in my posts,

challenging people to challenge themselves.

Here are some things you should give up,

to be happy .

Here is a list of 15 things, which,if you  

give up on them, will make your life a lot

easier and you’ll feel much, much happier.

We hold on to so many things that cause us 

a great deal of pain, stress and suffering 

and instead of letting them all go and

allowing ourselves to be stress-free  and

happy, we cling on to them.

Well, not anymore. Starting today,we will 

give up on all those things that no longer

serve us, and we will embrace change.

1. Give up your need to always be right.

There are so many of us who can’t stand

the idea of being wrong – wanting to always

be right – even at the risk of ending 

great relationships or causing a great deal

of stress and pain for us and for others.

It’s just not worth it.

Whenever you feel the “urgent” need to jump

into a fight over who is right and who is

wrong, ask yourself this question from 

Dr. Wayne Dyer: “Would I rather be right,

or would I rather be kind?” 

What difference will that make?

Is your ego really that big?

2. Give up your need for control.

Be willing to give up your need to always

control everything that happens to you

and around you – situations, events,

people, etc. Whether they are loved ones,

co-workers, or just strangers you meet on

the street – just allow them to be.

Allow everything and everyone to be just

as they are and you will see how much

better will that make you feel.

3. Give up on blame. 

Give up on your need to blame others

for what you have or don’t have,

for what you feel or don’t feel.

Stop giving your powers away and start 

taking responsibility for your life.

4. Give up your self-defeating self-talk.

How many people are hurting themselves

because of their negative, polluted and 

repetitive self-defeating mindset?

Don’t believe everything that your mind

is telling you – especially if it’s

negative and self-defeating. 

You are better than that.

“The mind is a superb instrument if

used rightly. Used wrongly, however,

it becomes very destructive.”

Eckhart Tolle

5.Give up your limiting beliefs about what

you can or cannot do, about what is possible

or impossible. From now on, you are no longer

going to allow your limiting beliefs to keep

you stuck in the wrong place.

Spread your wings and fly!

6. Give up complaining. Give up your constant

need to complain about those many, many,

people, situations and events that make you

unhappy, sad and depressed. Nobody can make you

unhappy, no situation can make you sad or 

miserable unless you allow it to.

It’s not the situation that triggers those 

feelings in you, but how you choose to look

at it. Never underestimate the power of

positive thinking.

7.Give up the luxury of criticism.

Give up your need to criticize things,events 

or people that are different than you.

We are all different, yet we are all the same.

We all want to be happy, we all want to love

and be loved and we all want to be understood.

We all want something, and something is wished

by us all.

8. Give up your need to impress others.

Stop trying so hard to be something that 

you’re not just to make others like you.

It doesn’t work this way. The moment you 

stop trying so hard to be something that

you’re not, the moment you take of all

your masks, the moment you accept and 

embrace the real you, you will find

people will be drawn to you,effortlessly.

9. Give up your resistance to change.

Change is good. Change will help you move

from A to B. Change will help you make

improvements in your life and also the 

lives of those around you.

Follow your bliss, embrace change,  don’t

resist it.

10. Give up labels.

Stop labeling the things, people or

events that you don’t understand as

being weird or different and try

opening your mind, little by little.

Minds only work when open.

11.Give up on your fears. 

Fear is just an illusion,it doesn’t

exist – you created it.

It’s all in your mind. Correct the

inside and the outside will fall

into place.

12. Give up your excuses.

Send them packing and tell them 

they’re fired.You no longer need them.

A lot of times we limit ourselves

because of the many excuses we use.

Instead of growing and working on 

improving ourselves and our lives,

we get stuck and lie to ourselves,

using all kind of excuses,excuses 

that most of the time,are not even real.

13.Give up the past.

I know, I know. This one’s hard.

Especially when the past looks so much

better than the present and the future

looks so frightening.

But, you have to take into consideration

the fact that the present moment is all

you have and all you will ever have.

The past you are now longing for,the past

that you are now dreaming about,was 

ignored by you when it was present.

Stop deluding yourself.

Be present in everything you do and

enjoy life. After all, life is a journey

not a destination. Have a clear vision

for the future, prepare yourself, but

always be present in the now.

14. Give up attachment.

This is a concept that, for most of us,

is so hard to grasp and I have to tell 

you that it was for me too (it still is),

but it’s not impossible.

You get better and better at it with

time and practice. The moment you detach 

yourself from all things you become so

peaceful, so tolerant, so kind and so

serene. You will get to a place where 

you will be able to understand all things

without even trying.A state beyond words.

15.Give up living your life to other people’s

expectations. Way too many people are living

a life that is not theirs to live. 

They live their lives according to what others

think is best for them; they live their lives

according to what their parents think is best

for them; to what their friends, their enemies

and their teachers, their government and the

media think is best for them.

They ignore their inner voice,that inner calling.

They are so busy with pleasing everybody,with

living up to other people’s expectations,that they

lose control over their lives.

They forget what makes them happy,what they want,

what they need… and eventually, they forget about

themselves.  You have one life,this one right now,

you must live it, own it, and especially don’t let

other people’s opinions distract you from your path.

"Learn how to be happy with what you have

while you pursue all that you want."

Jim Rohn

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